Sorting Out The SuperNanny

The power of entertainment, producers and media have combined to create a fantasy of proper child and parent coaching known as SuperNanny, ABC’s hot TV show.

Proving Hollywood is not even skin deep in its approach to professional parenting, Jo Frost, the star of Super Nanny, makes no bones about her lack of qualifications: she is not a pediatrician, psychologist or any professional. She is also not a mom. Not even married, although she wears a wedding band.

The problem is that Super Nanny purports to teach millions of parents how to raise kids and by the way, do so in just a few days with a single and simple-minded ‘behavior’ modification program e.g. it’s good behavior if the parent likes it.

How control is accomplished is even more ignorant of the damaging effects of techniques she preaches like ‘Time Out’ or excessive parental manipulation.
There is no reference to normalage appropriate or developmental milestones, nor even the slightest reference to psychological issues.

Here’s where I’m stepping in to ‘Sort out the SuperNanny’…

Super Nanny is Back!

Have you heard the news?  The Super Nanny season premier is Friday, today!  Who knows what this season will bring?  I am hoping some developmentally accurate information will be shared on the show.
 
The advertisement for the Super Nanny show again depicts the Super Nanny as someone every family needs for healthy parenting.  Parents, try to […]

How Kids Feel when Parents Fight

ABC and NBC are flooding the T.V. market place with parenting advice.  Between the Super Nanny and The Baby Borrowers you’d think America’s parents don’t have clue about how to care for their own children.  Well I think that is insulting the intelligence of parents.  It makes me mad!
 
The teenagers that are trying to parent […]

Do you have a strong-willed child? Sorting Out the SuperNanny…

Do you have a strong-willed child?  Super Nanny gave us a taste last night of how we label kids with this term.  There are tons of books out there on ‘strong willed’ kids.  But, have you ever seen a book on the strong willed parent?  I have never seen one, so I think not!
The truth […]

Sorting Out the SuperNanny… Time-Outs NEVER change behavior.

t the risk of sounding like a broken record… I’ve said it before and I won’t stop saying it, “Time-Outs NEVER change behavior; they only stop behavior”. 
So, parents don’t fool yourself into thinking that because you remove your child for a certain amount of minutes in a certain place (in this weeks case it […]

Shame on you Super Nanny!

I find myself having to sift through all the negative messages the Super Nanny gives the parents to get to the good stuff.
Shame on you Super Nanny! 
For the life of me I cannot understand why the Super Nanny shames parents.  This week there were all sorts of great messages from the Super Nanny, like, “Teenagers […]

Ask yourself “Why I should follow the SuperNanny’s advice?”

If you are not asking yourself ‘why’ should I follow the Super Nanny’s advice, you need to start now. 
Have you ever done something and then asked yourself, why did I do that? The Super Nanny’s advice goes uncontested every week.  Every week I ask myself ‘why’ does she recommend that parents do that? 
Here is […]

Hey SuperNanny, it’s not all about you!

A mom reluctantly standing on her own stairway landing as someone (Jo Frost) comes into her home to tell her how to parent is normal.  The SuperNanny calling her ‘rude’ for not welcoming her with open arms is not!
The SuperNanny taking the “big boys” in this family aside to ask their opinion without having mom […]

The SuperNanny Gets Sensitive

A sensitive SuperNanny is who we saw this week.  Hooray Prime Time for giving parents here at home an insight into the profound sorrow and loss a single parent feels while their spouse is off fighting in Iraq. 
A kinder, gentler Super Nanny suggests mom “bring some life back into her home”.  Helping mom and the […]

Sorting Out The SuperNanny: Parents Don’t have to Feel BAD in order to be GOOD Parents

I will never understand the Super Nanny and Prime Time Televisions seeming compulsion to degrade parents in order to help them.  It is so unnecessary and besides that it gives the ‘helping professions’ a really bad name. 
The message seems to be that you need to be horrible in order to get help.  Instead of praising […]

Sorting Out the SuperNanny… “Why Are We Sooo Passionate About Pacifiers”!

Watching & listening to mom as she says, “I’m not doing a really good job” as her eyes are down cast looking extremely ashamed was painful for me. As usual, the Super Nanny begins by berating these parents about their lack of follow through, lack of respect for their house and mom’s need to have her […]